honesty

(P.S. Honesty Part 1 is actually titled "The Secret to Making a Relationship Work")

I wanted to continue with the Honesty talk because, though I think most of us consider ourselves to be honest people, we're actually quite often BIG FAT LIARS;) and we don't realize how much this damages our relationships. Last time I focused on I've kept things from partners in the past. Now I'm going to talk about what it's like to be on the other end of the non-truth.

I've figured it out! How to make a relationship work and last, that is. I've been married almost an entire year now so I think I'm qualified to call myself an expert, don't you? Well, truth is that if I hadn't figured this out (or, more accurately, been informed via our therapist over the years), we would never have stayed together & gotten married in the first place.

So what's the big secret? Sex that drives him wild? Having a home cooked meal ready for him when he gets home every night? Liking all the same things? I used to think so.