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Honesty Part 2: How we're actually BIG FAT LIARS!
(P.S. Honesty Part 1 is actually titled "The Secret to Making a Relationship Work")
I wanted to continue with the Honesty talk because, though I think most of us consider ourselves to be honest people, we're actually quite often BIG FAT LIARS;) and we don't realize how much this damages our relationships. Last time I focused on I've kept things from partners in the past. Now I'm going to talk about what it's like to be on the other end of the non-truth.
The Secret to Making a Relationship Work...
I've figured it out! How to make a relationship work and last, that is. I've been married almost an entire year now so I think I'm qualified to call myself an expert, don't you? Well, truth is that if I hadn't figured this out (or, more accurately, been informed via our therapist over the years), we would never have stayed together & gotten married in the first place.
So what's the big secret? Sex that drives him wild? Having a home cooked meal ready for him when he gets home every night? Liking all the same things? I used to think so.
JUST WISHIN' AND HOPIN' AND THINKIN' AND PRAYIN'....
If you haven't seen the opening skit of the movie "My Best Friend's Wedding," go see it now...Do not pass go, Do not collect $100...Just GO! (But then come back!;)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c74BSImG4xM
This spoof is a play on the song "Wishin' and Hopin'," but how many of us women, whether we realize it or not, actually practice what the song preaches?
Show him that you care just for him
And do the things he likes to do
Wear your hair just for him, 'cause
You won't get him
Thinkin' and a-prayin'
Wishin' and a-hopin'...



